Hi everyone, Im new my husband was dx with stage IV bladder cancer on march 24th, he's only 33, we live in Minnesota, We have two small children, i just feel like we were handed a raw deal in life, His cancer has spread to the prostate, lymph nodes, a spot on his muscle chest adn in his left thigh muscle, When we first got the news the urologist told us pretty cut and dry that it wasnt good, it was a high grade, agressive cancer and if we did nothing, he gave us maybe 2 years, but from what im reading on line even with the chemo i dont see much hope, we recieved good news in the beginning of june that according to the catscan the tumor and multiple spots have reduced in size but due to having low blood counts he missed two treatments and during this time his cancer grew back some, the only treatment being offered is Cistoplatin/gemzar, basically thats where the options end, i just feel there should be more options for us, anyone have any ideas??? i know im grabbing at strings, i just dont want to see my husband die at such a young age .