He is not a female urologist, but he is a very well known urologist. He was one of pioneers for treating non muscle invasive bladder cancer, which you have indicated.
His name is Dr. Lamm. Everyone in bladder cancer community knows about him. He was a professor of University of Arizona, but he is retired and he runs his own practice.
I recall some female patient was looking for a urologist when her treatment with BCG did not work, so I gave her Dr. Lamm's contact number. Apparently she contacted Dr. Lamm and talked with him and she was going to see him. A few months ago, I sent him a question regarding viability of BCG bacteria counts in Merck Onco-Tice BCG without him answering my question. But I actually received his answer. I believe It is worth talking to him. best luck
His contact number is found below.
www.1d5920f4b44b27a802bd77c4f0536f5a-gdprlock/search?q=dr.+donald+lamm+in+arizona&oq=dr.+donald+lamm+in+arizona&aqs=chrome..69i57j0i22i30.7715j0j7&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8
Below is some of webinars he had given recently.
grandroundsinurology.com/author/dlamm/ 
