I relize I must sound very rude, its just their are times I dont know how to go on, and I found a memorial site that helped alittle as was this one and it felt as if that previous response was a insult to the fact that I wanted to share a different site! I know that cancer did take my mommy, and that maybe my story could help someone else, I just need to remeber her b4 the cancer to! She was a loving mother, wife and grandmother, who died way to early! We had so many plans and I dont know how to help her anymore, so maybe thats y its important to me to make a memorial 4 her! Yes part of it is selfish, cause it does help me, those days that I just cant even function enough to get out of bed, I go to that site and this one as well! I read alot of peoples stories and hopefully in time I will be able to share more about the thing that took my mommy, I was just hoping I would still be wellcome as well as her memory!