Starting up my sex life...

16 years 1 month ago #14741 by fearandfight
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Because when they do the RC they take your prostrate and in there is the seminal vesticle which is where the semen is produced. Joe ;)

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16 years 1 month ago #14738 by Leigh
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Hello Jeff,

It is no longer possible to ejaculate after the RC although reaching a climax is the same although shooting blanks so to speak....

I am sure someone here can explain the technical reason for this..

Regards
Leigh


Leigh, 39
Dx July 2007
TURBT July 2007
RC/Neobladder ,Studer Pouch, September 2007
Erasmus Centrum Rotterdam
TNM Classification: pT4 N2 Mo
4 cycles aduvant chemo Gemzar & Cisplatinum

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16 years 1 month ago #14725 by Jeff F
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Sensitive question, but i will ask it anyway: do you ejaculate semen with a neo bladder or is that function eliminated?

BC diagnosed 01/2007
Cystoscopes and Miomyacin in 2007
R/C ilial conduit 04/27/2008

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16 years 2 months ago #13564 by Leigh
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Hello Joe,

Thanks for your message.

Ensuring my bladder is empty would be a good preparation and luckilly I can do that with ought having to cath.

The condom would be a good choice to see if I do have any leakage and to continue the use if so.

Thanks
Leigh

Leigh, 39
Dx July 2007
TURBT July 2007
RC/Neobladder ,Studer Pouch, September 2007
Erasmus Centrum Rotterdam
TNM Classification: pT4 N2 Mo
4 cycles aduvant chemo Gemzar & Cisplatinum

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16 years 2 months ago #13563 by Leigh
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Hello Rick,

I really appreciate your reply to my post.

It has helped me greatly to hear your experience and perspective.

Kind Regards
Leigh



Leigh, 39
Dx July 2007
TURBT July 2007
RC/Neobladder ,Studer Pouch, September 2007
Erasmus Centrum Rotterdam
TNM Classification: pT4 N2 Mo
4 cycles aduvant chemo Gemzar & Cisplatinum

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16 years 2 months ago #13494 by Joe M
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You could try cathing yourself to drain your bladder as much as possible before sex.
This would reduce, or eliminate the risk of urine transfers.

I would also suggest suing a condom, to eliminate the bacterial risks.

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