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Hi,
Have a look at the link about with posts from Linda W at the top of the page under 'important topics', if you haven't already.
I'm very surprised that the doctors and nurses from Sloan would recommend an ileal conduit over the pouch or neobladder. Unless there are extenuating circumstances that make surgery risky, I've never heard of someone being told the external pouch/ileal conduit is better or easier, or less problematic.
It's unfortunate that you only met women with problems with their pouch. I have met so many women who are more than satisfied with theirs, maybe you should join our discussion group (
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) and talk with them yourself. Women with neobladder and Indiana pouches far outnumber those with ileal conduits unless it was done a long time ago. It's very old fashioned these days. Again, I'm shocked a nurse from Sloan would claim it was the better option! Everyone -meaning the experts that publish in journals-agrees the newer techniques offer excellent quality of life.
Unless people are unfit for the self-care that neobladders and internal reservoirs require, and unless the doctor is unable to perform the newer techniques, I've never heard of someone receiving this information in the last 8 years!
All the being said, the experts also agree that most people who get an ileal conduit are perfectly satisfied with their quality of life as well.
Like Linda W, I'm allergic to tape and my skin peels off after 5 minutes. That's a reason to avoid having to live with tape on your skin for the rest of your life.
I wish you the best with your choice!
Wendy