Hi Debbie,
I was reading your story, your husband had his catheter out the morning after his turb, sounds different as my husbands was left in 10 days, he should be sore but not in such pain as you describe. Where are you located and are you at a major cancer hospital. We have knowledge of many great bladder cancer specialists if you want a second opinion which we always advise. My husband had a r/c Sept. 14th 2007, Cleveland Clinic. I am anxious to hear stage of the tumor, and if its muscle invasive. Or do you know yet? Ginger Beane