Aimeth,
I can totally understand where you are coming from...My in-laws were in town (just leaving today actually)...they were driving my husband crazy with all of the things other people told them would help...escarole soup for constipation, have a beer it will help kidney function...yada, yada, yada...everyone wants to help I understand that, but where were/are they on the bad days? Where are they for the Dr. Visits, the nausea etc...when we finally get into a routine (as much of a routine as possible in these circumstances)someone says they are coming to visit...not to a hotel...at the house...adding cooking of meals, changing linens, straighting up, dishes, and longer hours to my already full plate....it is exhausting...I do understand that they think that by stopping by with a book, or meal, or suggestion they are helping...but a lot more goes into a visit than that. I am so tired....
Karen