I wish I knew the answer; I would think you could use some type of Foley catheter to let yourself get some very much needed sleep. I'm sure Pat or someone here will be able to give you some hope. I'll remember you in my prayers; no one should have to live like you are doing. Hugs,
Melodie, Indy Pouch, U.W.Medical Center, Seattle, Dr. Paul H. Lange & Jonathan L. Wright