Holly, Pat and Anne,
Thank you all for your valuable information.
I will try your technique this afternoon standing over the L000 but have tried that once and:angry: , I guess I need to just practice.
The surgeon told me to use the 16 fr cath. I cleanse myself, clean the cath in hot soapy water and put into microwave for 15 seconds and then apply KY Jelly Personal Lubricant. I have had no pain, problems, infections, etc. thank God and the surgeon said to use the same one for 2 weeks since I sterilize in microwave 15 second each time. After each use again in soapy water and microwave, and store in a tight container. The entire procedure takes us about 10 minutes and I cath. 4 times a day. I drink a lot of water, at least 5 bottles a day plus green tea, noooo coffee.
I want to thank all who have answered me, I can go to see the surgeon in June with so much more information, thanks to the caring people on this site.
It is a blessing to know "I am not alone with the problem" and I pray someday they will find a way to "attach" a neobladder to something.
Again my sincere thanks to Holly, Pat and Anne, gee I hope I did not forget anyone who has answered, if I did I apologize.
Please keep in touch.
Silk