Having not had a RC, I can't comment on what some of you gals have experienced, but I did have a total hysterectomy (uterus and ovaries) back in 1995 (becasue of bad fibroids and heavy bleeding, not cancer). I've experienced some of the same things you report, due to the sudden "menopause" and anatomical changes. I did take estratest (estrogen with a small amount of testosterone)and that helped some symptoms, though not libido. I stopped taking it about 5 years ago, as I'd been on it for almost 10 years and had turned 60. So, now I just use topical estrogen cream. Have any of you tried that? Works for dryness, and I think some may absorb through the skin as well to give some systemic benefit. I'm fortunate to have a supportive and young-for-his age husband to whom I've been married for almost 37 years, so I really feel bad for those of you who have been hooked up to such jerks.
Small TA Grade 1, May-06; recur (2 tiny), same, June-08; TURBTs both times. BCG begun July-08, dosage to 1/3rd May-10, completed treatment December-11. All clear since 2008.