Hi Lisa,
I am in the same boat. Early December i had an episode of gross hematuria, which frankly freaked me out. Marched through the holidays trying to not let my husband and kids know how worried I was. They did a CT scan with/without contrast, cystoscopy, all of the urine tests and all came back negative. Well, here I am now on a wonderful vacation with my husband and episode number 2. Of course, as a non-smoker, although just turned 60, although I hike 4 miles a day, so do not feel that old, know the age risk factor is there. Going to a great, well known urologist, but it grates on your nerves. When we do get home, will call him, he wanted me in every 3 months. Do now know what bunny he will pull out of his hat when I had the cystoscopy 2 weeks ago. Good luck with your issues, it is very stressful. I pray a lot and the take one day at a time is good advice for both of us!