Hmmm...I wonder if those doctors would say the same thing if it was their bladder???
However, I never had a blue light done either. They are relatively new. Even at the hospital that saw what the other guy didn't, they didn't need anything special to see it. They just aimed in right spot. It's easy to miss a spot if you aren't very careful in the searching back and forth and up and down and all around.
Blue light is slooowwwwllly rolling out around the world.
As for convincing him of anything...you know the saying about you can lead a horse to water....
You've done a lot. Sometimes folks just want to do things their way no matter what. Who's to say if it is right or wrong. Either way, we each have to own the consequences of our own decisions.
Hopefully, everything is going to be just fine.
Mike
Age 54
10/31/06 dx CIS (TisG3) non-invasive (at 47)
9/19/08 TURB/TUIP dx Invasive T2G3
10/8/08 RC neobladder(at 49)
2/15/13 T4G3N3M1 distant metastases(at 53)
9/2013 finished chemo -cancer free again
1/2014 ct scan results....distant mets
2/2014 ct result...spread to liver, kidneys, and lymph...