Sue & Pete, have been busy, have not been on the site lately, but seen your post this morning. All I can give you is my experience from the last two years. I had the same problem deciding two years ago. Was able to talk to men who used my doctor and was happy with the neo. The first couple months was a bit of hell. Pain, dressings, etc. After that I just kept getting better. At nearly two years out there is nothing I can't do now that I did before. It scares me to think I could have made a different choice. I have been very lucky. The neo was right for me. Not everyone on here has had the same experience. There are no guarantees on any of these surgeries. Get the best Doctor you can! If I can help in any way just let me know.
Wishing you both the very best.
Duke