Elaine,
This sounds somewhat familiar. My doc thought when scoping me that the tumour was small, but when he did the TURB, he discovered that it took up a whole third of the right back quadrant of my bladder. That was in January, and this is September and I still have my bladder. Of course, because of the nature of this disease, I have come to accept the fact, that someday, I may have to give it up.
I know that waiting on the pathology is very hard.
Just know that we have been through this and we are here to talk to.
Get some rest.
Rosemary