Momar,
Welcome. Directly to your question on hospitals:
health.usnews.com/best-hospitals/rankings/cancer. Just copy and paste the link. Hopefully, someone will chime in for a Virginia link. I also distilled this further for Virginia:
health.usnews.com/best-hospitals/area/va
Second item. You really won't know what the actual diagnosis is until the second TURB and pathology is done. In all the years I have volunteered on this board I am often surprised with good and bad guesses!
Don't feel too bad on your Doc's TURB. Mine didn't get enough muscle on my first either but, I learned on high grade tumors a second is almost always done to be safe. So hold on to that thought and I know waiting is tough. All we can control is one day at a time. Keep posting once you get the pathology report. Someone will have been there and done that should see your thread.
