Hello Trpstr
My name is Duke. I just dropped back in today to talk about another issue and seen your post. Thought I should reply.
I had Neo bladder surgery in 2009, I'm now 72, male. Probably my story from then is in archives here somewhere.
I have been more then satified with the surgery i had. It is not a easy surgery to have and I've had many. More to the point, I leak very little, it's really not a problem. I was still able to have sex after surgery. I think I had a great surgeon, but at the same time I have to say i have a friend that had the same surgeon and he was not happy with the results.
I'm I happy with my choice of the neo bladder, yes I am!
If I can answer any question for you let me know, I will check back here for a few days.
Wishing you the best!
Duke