Britt,
I must have missed the posts about the cytologies. The fact that you have had two and they were both "ALL CLEAR" is a GREAT SIGN!
As Julie said, you have to prioritize when you have so many different health issues competing for your attention. I wish the VA was competing for your attention more than they are. It makes me ashamed that our government lets the VA problem languish on after the service you and others have given our country.
Positive cytologies is a very, very good sign. I think you could safely let the cysto slide a bit (not forever) and not worry so much about that. I certainly wouldn't risk my life to get a cysto if I had your other issues and two clean cytology reports.
You mentioned previously about your friend's in high places that could pull strings in the VA. I'd go back to them again if I were you in addition to your congressional representatives.
Also, as Cynthia already mentioned, discussing other health issues is just fine here and she'd never restrict anyone for that. That video however, was gross (and not bladder cancer related) and I also didn't think it belonged here.
That's completely different than explaining all of the other medical issues you have and medications that you're on. Keep us all up to date as things progress and congratulations on the those two clean cytologies.
Mike