Bill,
Looks like your getting lots of good info. here on forum as I knew you would. I'm very happy with my Indy but everyone has to make the choice of which diversion they "think" will work best for them. Remember that what others choose may not be the best for you, and also consider how much time they have had the diversion. Than again, some do not get to decide due to complications. We all come from different backgrounds, with different life experiences, and I think much of that determines what we think will work for us. Me for example...I was willing to lose my bladder but if the surgeon had wanted my leg, I would have said, forget it...came in with it and I'm leaving with it.
My diversion would be pricey if I didn't have good insurance, so for some they might opt for the least expensive to maintain. Also, some may not want to manage all the supplies. I don't have my stoma in my navel as my surgeon doesn't like to use the navel in case there is ever a problem with the colon. But mine is flat to the surface of my skin and so doesn't prevent me from wearing most of the clothes I could wear previously. Since I'm a gal, I really did not want to mess with having to cath myself in an awkward postion and not be able to see what I was doing. I have not met or read of any women who have neo-bladders that have never had to cath themselves. When I had my TURB, I came home with a Foley catheter for 5 days...my urine draining in a bag strapped to my ankle annoyed me to no end...hence, I did not want to get the bag. I was very fortunate in that I felt completely comfortable and at peace with my decision to get an Indy and it has met my expectations. Melodie