Hi,
I always feel people like you and Bubbles have the hardest time and my infinitely better half Lee has had the rough end of the deal too. She tries very hard to be upbeat but I know every time I go for a check she dies a little and she is terrified every time I have an op. that I might not walk out.
She hides it but it can't be easy! I merely HAVE TO do it to stay alive and staying alive can at times be very tunnel visioned and selfish which can be hard on partners - just so you know we appreciate just how hard a ride YOU are having.
The endless question - why all the strong, healthy, active, doers male and female - why not the muggers, rapists and low life political parasites? - So where was it written life is fair
The only proof in 10,000 years of inventing & worshipping gods that one exists - Just tell him youir plans >
Take care and good luck - we know the partners have a hard time even if we may forget to say thank-you sometimes :-[
To all those partners out there being taken foregranted :-* & a hug
Regards,
Greg L-W.