my best friend diagnosed with stage 4 bladder cancer, 2 mos ago. He is receiving chemo and had one round of radiation to try to shrink anothet tumor found on spine. very agressive. I am feeling helpless as i watch him slowly slip away. He has no support of any family so i am pretty much the only one he has, I am seeing his behavior change and his anger that he takes out on me, which i know is common and thats ok, i understand. I just don't know what to say anymore, there are things he needs to take care of and i find myself unable to bring things up. He has a 17 yr old son which i don't think knows about how bad he is as he lives with his mom and my friend and her do not get along and she wants nothing to do with him..which leads me to a qustion..do i have the right to talk with her just so maybe the son would want to call his dad, they have not been real close due to his ex girlfriend and him not getting along... i don't want to upset my friend but know he talkes about his son and things he wants him to have, so any comments would be appreciated and thank you for reading, i know i will post again as i need some support with all this.
