I bet I'd probably be trying and hoping for the same thing. I think if he is one clinical trial it rules him out of other clinical trials but I'm no expert on any of that stuff.
I absolutely agree with the best care possible. I guess my question around prognosis is really to determine if it is time to focus on just keeping the pain away or not. I hope it doesn't sound cold coming through in writing because that is not the way I intend it at all and if we were talking face to face you would certainly feel the empathy come through. When someone we love deeply is going through something like this it is really hard on everyone.
I hope for everything to be the best that it can be for you and your husband. I have no words of wisdom that can help and I'm sorry for that.
Mike
Age 54
10/31/06 dx CIS (TisG3) non-invasive (at 47)
9/19/08 TURB/TUIP dx Invasive T2G3
10/8/08 RC neobladder(at 49)
2/15/13 T4G3N3M1 distant metastases(at 53)
9/2013 finished chemo -cancer free again
1/2014 ct scan results....distant mets
2/2014 ct result...spread to liver, kidneys, and lymph...