I'm new to the site- my mother was diagnosed last year after fighting a "uti" for three weeks, started chemo immediately on a taxol combo, had RC in July. They found tumor in 3 nodes, but scans showed it hadn't gone anywhere else. so she did more chemo on a giemsa/cisplatin combo which was awful!
All spring she's been telling her different doctors she has abdominal pain- crushing, debilitating pain. i couldn't believe how much she had changed in a couple months since Christmas when I saw her again because she'd been in bed sick. Pet scans, CT scans, doctor's brains- nothing revealed any sign of cancer. So they came up with the idea of doing a colectomy for her colitis thinking this would be the cure. They open her up and there's a thin sheet of cancer EVERYWHERE in her abdomen, and going into the lining of her lung. Expecting a 5 hour surgery, you can imagine our devastation when the surgeon came out an hour later to tell us this news.
Then she got DVT's so back to the hospital. And then a pleural effusion, so back to the hospital again and home with a permanent drain in. This last development made her most hopeful treatment, a radical surgery on her abdomen with heated chemo perfusion into the abdomen, impossible since it was a sign of spreading disease. As if this isn't enough, she has even more DVTs and we have to do shots twice a day instead of the pill.
So now she's trying a new chemo drug she hasn't had- Alimta (pemetrexed). First got it on Wednesday and had some CRAZY fatigue for the last two days with borderline altered mental status, but I think she's getting past that now. She has a nasty cough and I might have to take her in for that, but we can handle that.
It seems like every turn we take another complication or new development dashes our hopes at ever fighting this disease. It's growing like wild-fire and this new chemo has about a 50% chance of stabilizing the disease, but mean survival is around 10 months- not a pleasant thought.
Any advice anyone can offer on the alimta or on a similar experience with their cancer would be greatly appreciated. I'm so tired of praying and getting no relief. I was supposed to be married in October. My fiancee finally returned from Iraq and we were to be married at West Point but we'll have to cancel it on Monday. I am probably also going to have to take a year off of school since i don't know that she has any longer than that and she needs round-the-clock nursing. I'm so tired.