Hi Julieann,
Tell your mother that it may not even be cancer related...every symptom should be treated separately...It may be as simple as dehydration...Does she have a primary care physician? She doesn't have to go to an oncologist for everything...she can see her regular Dr. for bloodwork, urinalisis, blood pressure checks etc...They can send whatever they think important on to the oncologist for the 16th...This is not treatment...this is preventing something simple from becoming something major...Explain to her that this is making you worry, and that you need for her to go get it checked FOR YOU to put you at ease...Tell her that you understand that she doesn't want treatment, but it would be wrong to get really sick when all she needed were some antibiotics or to drink some more water...
Thinking of you,
Karen