Hi,
I am very sorry to hear about your dad, I think for me, if I were you I would
find out as much as you can about the situation from his doctor,then you can put to rest that you are over reacting in any way, get his actual prognosis, time frame. I also don't think you are obcessing about this, 3 years ago my dad had open heart at age 87 in Tucson arizona,,,he did great until a staff infection in his leg at the surgery site, he called me here in Ohio and I was on a plane the next day,,,I dropped everything and I am so grateful I did. This was Nov. over the next 5 months he rallied from being home to being back in rehab, I spent 6 weeks with him over that period of time,,I was fortuneate my children are married, my husband self sufficient, sort of,,,this was MY DAD, I didn't ask if I could go I just went!!! He passed away March 25th of that year from all the complications.
Maybe he could come be with you,,I am sure he would love the company,,is your mom with him?? As his caregiver, AND WHERE IS HE BEING TREATED, HOW OLD IS HE?????
We are here to help!!!!! Recently we had a member named Heenan,,,her dad also was in a similar situation Heenan moved her dad with her and her husband and he is getting treatment near her,,,, maybe not everyone can do this but it is just another case of being closer to dad at this time.......,Ginger