Dana,
I was 47 when first diagnosed.
The problems with urination are common after the surgery (especially since there were a lot tumors). Did the doctor give him anything for it? Pyridium (phenazopyridine) is one prescription that helps with urinary tract pain. It turns the pee bright orange.
He should call and let his doctor know just in case. They likely gave him antibiotics after the surgery as well because it is always possible to get an infection. If he doesn't have a fever, it is likely not infection but it is always a good idea to keep the doctor informed of any issues afterward.
Mike
Age 54
10/31/06 dx CIS (TisG3) non-invasive (at 47)
9/19/08 TURB/TUIP dx Invasive T2G3
10/8/08 RC neobladder(at 49)
2/15/13 T4G3N3M1 distant metastases(at 53)
9/2013 finished chemo -cancer free again
1/2014 ct scan results....distant mets
2/2014 ct result...spread to liver, kidneys, and lymph...