I am the caretaker of my 64 year old RC ( 3 years ago) husband. I have always followed this site, and became part of the family of BC supporters, although sometimes reading and remaining in the background. Many times, I have reached out in my heightened anxiety and desperation. Unless you or a family member or friend has experienced the emotional pain , of BC, it is difficult to speak, explain and share, with others, at times. My husband is awaiting results of a biopsy for a lymph node which may or may not be recurrent bladder cancer. Obviously, the waiting is horrific; however, in the back of my mind ,I remember all of you, who travel , many times a similar path, and in my prays, I ask that we all be comforted and given the strength to stand. I thank you all for showing us, over the years the courage ,grace and dignity of understanding what "this" means.