Hi Moglie
I am sorry to hear that your mom and yourself are having such a
hard time with the chemo treatment. I did not have either of
the chemo's you mention, but i have had a lot of chemo over
the years.
My Dr. put me on a very light antidepressant (amitriptyline) right after my first treatment. It kind of pulled me out of my
depression, and it is suppose to help your appetite.
I was on a very strong chemo at the time for bone cancer, I offen went the five days of chemo and another week without eating. Not good but it worked for me, I was 45 at that time.
You do not have to eat a lot to keep going. I also from time to time had a very low white blood count and got very weak.
I am sorry to say it but that is kind of what they are trying to do with the chemo. To give you as much and as strong of chemo as your body can stand to kill the cancer cells, but at the same time not kill you. My daughter made me a sign i read
offen.(GET TOUGH, BE TOUGH, STAY TOUGH) For me it worked out
in the end, I was very lucky.
The only way i know to get through it is to take one day at a
time and have a very good support system like you. I have learned through it all that we are a lot tougher then we think we are. I hope this will help you and your mom just a little!
Wishing both of you the best.
Duke