Hi everyone. We found out recently that my grandfather has been diagnosed with bladder cancer. Not living near him, I am getting all of the info 2nd hand, but I am not real sure that my aunt is getting very much even 1st hand from the Drs. Perhaps she will get on here and help fill in the blanks for me as the info comes along.
A quick run down on him, and then a few questions if you don't mind. Grandpa is 85 yrs old (86 in Sept), and has highly invasive bladder cancer (haven't been told a "Stage" or anything like that). It is a 2" tumor that is in the bladder muscle, and apparently has spread to the lymph nodes, and they see a spot in the lungs, but aren't postitive of the cancer spreading there, although it makes sense. He doesn't feel that he can survive a major surgery for the removal of everything. He is in the same boat with Chemo treatments. Right now the only option that he has been given is to have radiation on the bladder to try to destroy the tumor and relieve the pressure on the kidney and hopefully lower the Cretin levels. I can understand the rationale behind the bladder radiation, but there is no talk about any treatment of the lymph nodes. Is this even possible without chemo? Are there any ways of keeping the LN in check (guess along the lines of if we can't destroy it, is there anyway to keep it at bay while continuing on and surviving).
It has taken a long time (at least in my way of thinking) to have anything done. They (Drs.) first realized something was wrong back on March 26. This man hasn't even started any type of treatment yet! He hasn't had any 2nd opinions as of yet as we were just told the final info Thursday night. Does treatment tend to lack behind with a person of this age, with many feeling that he is older and lived a full life anyway? To my knowledge these Drs. haven't even mentioned what else they can do to continue and/or improve his chances of survival, let alone doing what they can for a long and better quality of life. Right now this man is in pretty good shape, and he can get around fairly decent. I could only hope to be this good if I reach his age.
I'm sorry to ramble. As many of you, I'm just looking for answers, and hopefully someone has some words of wisdom that can get us on the right path. Any treatments, ideas, or anything will be very much appreciated.
Thank you,
Chris