Pink,
I had a radical cystectomy, hysterectomy, and pelvic lymphadenectomy in February of 2004, and rather than rewriting my story here I suggest you go to the storyboard section and my story appears on the very first page that comes up. Obviousely that is a very brief description of my experiences and for the most part it only goes up until the fall of 2004. I have written to others about my experiences, all of them! if you're interested I could share some of my information (I've saved it all) with you via email or through the regular mail.
Just let me know if you're interested in receiving any of the information I have to share, I'd be more than happy to do so.
Lou Graham