The answer is, and I am not being flippant, is the one you pick is the right one. Meaning the vast majority that have been on this board like or adjust very well to whichever diversion they chose. I am giving you a very good site on the 3 different diversions with pros and cons. I don't believe it hyperlinks so copy and paste:
my.clevelandclinic.org/health/treatments/12546-urinary-reconstruction--diversion
As away with any other questions, someone should see this!
