Totally understand, I am in the same boat. CT scan, urine cytology, cycstocopy, etc. Everything was normal. With gross hematuria, which I assure you was enough for me to be unglued, it was hard for me to enjoy the holidays. I tried and my husband knew what was going on, but tried to keep our kids, (college, grad school) out of the loop until good results came in.
So, from my reading we should be thrilled right. I am happy that they did not find anything, but have had another episode, albeit just once and it takes you to a dark place. Certainly I will be contacting the Dr. when we get home from our vacation, of course it happened on day 1. What new bunny will he pull out of his hat? I had cyscotpy 2 weeks ago. This is a maddening circumstance and I hope you have peace of mind knowing it could be a lot worse and we should be happy. And yet...., I worry.