Teddy's Mom,
I have found this site helpful, and I hope you will also. My response will be generic, as your doctor's reply and your body's response will vary somewhat. TURBT basics.
The surgery itself is an hour or so long - but with prep time and recovery it takes a good part of the day. You will need a driver to take you home after anesthesia.
If there is some continued bleeding, you may be sent home with a catheter; my experience is that I see the doctor the next morning, and if the bleeding has stopped, the catheter is removed.
The catheter is connected to a leg-bag that collects the urine. A larger bed-bag may be provided for overnight duty. Loose clothing makes dealing with the catheter and leg bag much easier - jogging plants or sweatpants are a reasonable choice.
The doctor may prescribe or recommend AZO or pyridium ( Urinary pain tablets) also over the counter, in case of urinary pain. Ask about this. Some of us have a couple days of leakage afterwards - adult diaper can deal with this.
About 10 days or 2 weeks after the TURBT the scabs come off, and there can be some bleeding. Ask about this. Make sure ASK how you decide when post-TURBT bleeding need to be IMMEDIATELY reported - heavy bleeding needs to be treated NOW.
Your doctor will likely give you some work restrictions involving lifting, bending and major exertion. ASK the doctor. Job duties and recovery vary - return to work will vary.
Round number guess - count on 2 to 3 days minimum off work after the TURBT, and see how it goes from there you don't want to get bleeding started..
It appears you have a list for the Doc, I hope this helps you fill out that list.
Best,
Jack