You have a good start...since you know some of the questions that need answers. First of all, you will want to find a center that does a LOT of bladder cancer surgeries, especially radical cystectomies. And do not be bashful about asking the urologists you see these questions.
Where are you located geographically? It is possible that some of our members may have suggestions based on personal experience. I just posted the latest US NEWS and WORLD REPORT ratings of hospitals in urology under the "Articles of Interest" heading on this forum.
health.usnews.com/best-hospitals/rankings/urology
These are hopitals that are ranked for UROLOGIC surgery, not especially bladder cancer, but if they excel in the general area it is more than likely that they might be good in bladder cancer. At least it would be a place to start...You can look up the hospital and the Urology (or urological surgery department) and look at the physicians listed. Their interests and sub specialties are usually listed.
Also, on our home page, is a list of treatment centers:
bladdercancersupport.org/bladder-cancer-help/resources/treatment-center-finder
This is going to be undergoing revision, but may be of some help.
Good luck to you
Sara Anne