Hi purrrkat,
I understand exactly what you are going through. I got busy cleaning closets, printing life insurance claim forms, going over our investments. The only thing I wouldn't due was plan my funeral. Thank goodness I finally got my first TURBT after waiting 6 weeks. Then more waiting for results and a second opinion and now I'm on my 6 weeks of BCG and able to breathe a little better. I still have a few anxious moments, but I've convinced myself to focus on enjoying the time I have. It is definitely all consuming, so I have started planning for things in the future and learning to talk myself off the cliff. I know you will too!! Take some time and get a pedicure so when you have those feet in the stirrups you can enjoy looking at your feet. Ha! I actually did that and felt much better.
One more thing, nothing has been as bad as I imagined..actually nothing has bothered me so far except the waiting.
I'll be thinking about you and praying for you.
Best wishes,
Janice
4/17/16 hematuria
5/26/16 TURBT 2.5x2.5x2cm TA HG,
6/20/16 cystoscopy NED,
7/15/16 start BCG