I don't know about everyone else, but I don't just take any old doctor that comes along, I want a doctor that is not uncomfortable with talking with their patients.
As a new cancer patient you better take the time to judge, because the doctor that you have might not be the right doctor for you. Some uro's don't know a thing about bladder cancer, and some are well versed in it and the treatment of it.
JOEL, which doc do you want. One that is going to rely on NED or a doc that is going to control NED. Because (NED) sometimes jumps ship.
The friends you have sometimes don't know how to handle the CANCER word. most of them are not running from you, they are running from that. Some will come back, some will not, you don't need to worry about them.
Quasar, If it never comes back on you then you are a very lucky man. But please don't count your chickens........ I REALLY hope it dose not.