Mom,
I am with Wendy on this. Your son needs to find out what is causing the bleeding. It is not common to bleed so long after the treatments and if he takes the treatment while bleeding it could cause a systemic poisoning. This is potentially as bad as the cancer.
Find out the cause. Perhaps it is possible that he could proceed after the cause is determined and corrected.
As far as depression goes, this is not an uncommon response to a cancer diagnosis. Once again, depression is serious also, and needs treatment. Please let your son know that he is not alone in his diagnosis, and that this diagnosis is a dangerous disease, but not neccessarily a death sentence.
I will be eager to hear what Dr. O'Donnell has to say about this issue of the bleeding. I bled more than I feel I should have with BCG, but it cleared up after the first day.
Tell your son not to despair. We are with him every step of the way.
Your friend,
Rosemary