Nanic,
Sorry your husband is having to go through everything he is
and I know it's just as hard on you.
I was diagnosed about two years ago, neo surgery in Dec. All i can tell you is if they can save his bladder it is worth
everything he is going through. Are there going to be things
he don't like, you bet. But you do what you need to do.I
read a lot about the process on this site. Maybe one of the
best ways is to find a thread on here of someone that started
there story early and follow it through. I know when i first
started, i could hardly stand to read about some of these things. But it's a process, i hope a short one for your husband, as you will see as you read and learn we make it through the things we have to do to live.
Me' i'm three months from my neo surgery. Today i took our washing machine apart and put it back together. Life goes on!!!
Wishing the best for both of you.
Duke